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Thursday, January 21, 2010

Bestfriend dates boyfriend or ex-boyfriend..

Yesterday morning around 7.30 am, I drove myself to UKM Bangi. And as usual I always switch my radio to Fly FM frequency... I really love listening to Phat Phabes, Ben and Nadia for Pagi shows because I think it can enhances my cheer mood. For me Ben is a weirdo because he always have something weird to share in every morning topics. Imagine, he has hair growing in his belly button pointing him and he has a puppy that always sit on his face on every morning so that he can wake up easily. He is gross, but I forgive him for being gross and weird just because he can fulfill my morning environment.

So, after a while there comes a morning session called Fix It. This session is for the listener who has any problems and the crew will try to solve it. The problem was about her bestfriend 'stealing' her boyfriend. She said she knew her boyfriend has someone else when they were still together and 2 weeks after they broke up, her boyfriend claimed that he got an affair with her own bestfriend. So the caller demand for apologize from her bestfriend. The crew then call her bestfriend and suprisingly, what was really happened that her bestfriend denied it. She denies about stealing her bestfriend's boyfriend and later on she wants her to apologize her back because accusing her on that. She said her bestfriend cheated on him on the first place. He felt disappointed and then he began looking for her so that he can share his problem.. And the situation turns away around, both of them falling in love...What a stupid guy and a stupid bestfriend.

Phat Phabes wants to be natural so he claimed, he won't do that for his bestfriend. A friendship that build upon thrust were destroy just because a boy? Come on guys, u better be kidding. Their friendship begins 10 years ago and going to be last just for a guy? Honestly I claimed that as the stupidest thing on earth.

Nadia said she just agree with that. She just can't help it if her bestfriend's boyfriend is handsome and gorgeous. Maybe they'll become a good pair. Nadia just play dumb..I think.

Ben said he just always fall in love with Stella. The one and only.. So, Ben is out of topic.

Everyone definitely will find difficulties in their relationship... Bestfriend will help them out by comforting them and be supportive. So we really want the best for our bestfriend. Thats why we choose them as our bestfriend, right? For me, if they are in sorrow I'll be always try to help them out. Friends sometimes play as our siblings right? So we won't steal or date our sibling's boyfriend. Worst thing, imagine if our bestfriend and boyfriend make up..huhu..

Men will always going to try you out. It is natural. When you are getting to know a man, they always play nice and cute. Most of them are like that. And when the relationships start there it goes.. They will turn away around. I'm not being negative but this is the same situation I have already facing in.. It just like you took a Masters Degree course with 50% assessment and 50% Final Exam. If u blown out one of them, your relationships become failure. If you pass with Distinction, your graduation ceremony is your wedding ceremony. But if you just manage to get 50%, beware of the future. You will always facing on-going assessment through out your relationship. It depends on your preparation, If sometimes your are not in a mood or the situation just goes wrong you might getting grade C. If you are prepared but he is not in a right mood or right situation maybe at least a B and if both of you contributes to each other grade A will pleasant you. It same when it goes to the final, if there is situation that both of you might have to decide, a decision that will turns both of your life in a different way or different view it just yet to tell where your relationships goes. Its not just that, every people will having different types of problems, so there will your final goes...This is just my point of view but it is relevant to our life nowadays. I mean I don't want to talk about my private life but this is where the cycle goes. Everyone will have to face it.

But stealing a boyfriend's bestfriend was not such a good ideas. There are a lot of guys out there. Man that you doesn't know and doesn't understand. Then, your Masters Degree kick out! Beware..

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